A Mental Health Therapist, Mcfredericks Akor Edache, has raised serious concerns over the rising cases of men slumping and dying during s3xual activity, particularly in hotels and mostly with women other than their wives.
Speaking on the troubling trend, Edache attributed the growing number of such incidents to the abuse of s3xual enhancement drugs, which he said many men now take in a bid to impress female partners outside their marriages.
“These substances are often not taken to please their wives but to impress other women,” Edache noted, adding that such acts are less commonly associated with s3xual encounters involving spouses.
The clinical psychologist explained that the human s3xual response is naturally made up of phases—beginning with foreplay and building up to orgasm—without the need for artificial stimulation. He cautioned that introducing drugs or herbs to alter this natural process could result in fatal consequences.
According to him, the use of enhancers forces the body into a “hypers3xual response phase,” leading to prolonged erection and delayed orgasm. This, he said, can stretch the body’s endurance limit, especially in men, leading to complications such as low blood flow to vital organs, difficulty in breathing, and even death.
“The normal s3xual process involves stimulation and foreplay, which prepares both partners for satisfaction. But when drugs are used to delay climax or increase sexual strength, it forces blood to the genital area while reducing the supply to vital organs like the heart and brain. This could cause respiratory issues and sudden death,” he explained.
Edache noted that the female body typically takes longer to reach climax, which often pressures men into using enhancers to try and “catch up” with their partner’s timing. However, he warned that this act of trying to “prove sexual power” could be deadly.
“The first round of s3x is always the most pleasurable. Trying to impress women with additional rounds is often unnecessary and can be harmful. Many men take these drugs to avoid being labeled as weak or ‘one-minute men’ by their partners, not knowing the risk involved,” he said.
He advised that both partners should focus on foreplay and natural stimulation, stressing that foreplay helps both parties enjoy the act equally without the need for enhancement substances.
“The sight of a seductive female might be tempting, but men must learn to control themselves. A good session of foreplay ensures both partners climax around the same time, making the act more satisfying and safer,” he advised.
Edache urged men to prioritize their health and avoid the temptation of proving s3xual stamina through risky means, especially with casual or extramarital partners.

